Sex Boutique Settled On Second: It may come as a surprise, but sex isn’t recession-proof.

—Photo by Darcy Leigh Richardson AT HOME AT WORK. Joy Starr, owner of The Rubber Tree, has made her business a success, and accepted in the Shore, by working seven days a week.
By Darcy Leigh Richardson Editor gazettes.com
Editor’s Note: Belmont Shore — the Second Street shopping district — long has been the standard by which all retail in Long Beach has been measured. This series is exploring how the business environment has changed, and how business owners are meeting that challenge.

It may come as a surprise, but sex isn’t recession-proof.

Since the recession began taking its toll on the bottom lines of businesses starting in late 2007, Joy Starr said the past three years has required her to cut costs wherever she could to keep her nearly 19-year-old retail store, The Rubber Tree, open seven days a week at 5018 E. Second St.

While many storefronts on Second Street in Belmont Shore have been closing around her, including the neighboring 5016 E. Second St., the former location of Arbor By the Bay, Starr said she is optimistic about 2011. After all, Starr has seen her share of trying times and triumphs in the past 19 years as the owner of what is now commonly called a “sex boutique.”

“I understand that this store isn’t for everyone,” Starr said. “But (in 1992), people thought that we’d have flashers and hookers coming in … (Doug) Drummond, the (Third District) councilman at the time, met with us and talked with us. In actuality, a lot more people were excited we were here. All the negativity and bad press did the opposite of what people thought it would do. We received a few ‘rot in hell’ comments, but people came in to see for themselves what the store was about. There were people who tried to get us closed, but once you’re open, that’s hard to do.”

Starr said she opened the store Oct. 2, 1992, with four other partners, all of whom have left and/or been bought out of the business, except Starr’s ex-husband, Larry Starr. In 1999, Starr and her daughter Shana began managing and working on the day-to-day operations of the store.

“Shana had experience in retail, and (in 1999), we moved forward as a family business,” Starr said. “Some people in the community may have thought of me as a loose, wild kind of person for owning this kind of store, but that’s why I wanted to become involved in the Belmont Shore Business Association (BSBA).”

Because The Rubber Tree’s primary items were condoms coupled with a small lingerie stock in the mid-1990s, Starr worked with the city’s Department of Health and Human Services and the city’s higher education institutions to promote safe sex with lectures, information packets, and for college students studying human sexuality, tours of the store.

“People were happy there were condoms here because they needed protection,” Starr said. “Regular people came in — mothers would even buy condoms for their sons as stocking stuffers at Christmas.”

Although The Rubber Tree’s stock has grown to fill the walls of the store, Starr said she has no plans to expand. One of the positive comments she receives from customers is that the smaller store provides a more intimate feeling, and her staff is always willing to help and answer questions about products.

“Our mission is to inform people and give correct information about the proper use of products,” Starr said. “You could change a person’s mind about the business by giving them accurate, clear information.”

The Rubber Tree’s business cards describe the eclectic mix of cards, books, games, massage oils, toys, T-shirts and (of course) condoms as “a unique gift store for lovers.”

The sex retail industry now is manufacturing and distributing more products for couples, Starr said. Yet the traditionally female-focused industry still is offering plenty of products that enhance the woman’s sexual experience. The difference is that items now have better technology and are more well-made than past iterations of sex toys such as vibrators.

“The company we do the most business with is owned by a woman,” Starr said. “The packaging is appropriate and subdued … more of the items are made of medical-grade silicone, instead of latex.”

All customers must be at least 18 years old to venture past The Rubber Tree’s front display of massage oils and Kama Sutra products. Starr said both men and women of various sexual orientations come to the store to shop, especially in the weeks prior to Valentine’s Day Feb. 14.

“We do gift wrapping for free with any purchase every day of the year,” Starr said. “There’s books, lingerie, games … all are very popular items for Valentine’s Day.”

Recently, Starr has been working seven days a week either at the store or doing the store’s accounting/bookkeeping from her Belmont Heights home. On the weekends, a part-time employee comes to help for a few hours, but either Starr or Shana are behind the counter seven days a week.

Starr commented that after nearly 19 years, she never thought she would still be working as much as she does now.

“It’s a love it or hate it store,” Starr said. “But we have so many repeat customers that have been here for years. We’ve received a lot of support from the community, and people from 18 to 90 years old come in here to shop … and our (online) reviews are a testament to how we treat our customers with respect and integrity.”

Starr said she has witnessed significant change in Belmont Shore over the years. Although the number of vacancies on Second Street is high right now, Starr said the public opinion of Belmont Shore — a panacea of good businesses — has remained intact.

“I don’t think (landlords) will have any problem renting places,” Starr said. “I hear from residents that they like the ‘mom and pop’ stores and the diversity of retail here … then there are absentee and local landlords that own property. I’ve seen that the local landlords care much more about the Shore and many are still loyal to the concept of small businesses… I have so much gratitude to them, because they really value the people who rent their properties.”

The challenges of owning a small business do come with rewards. Starr said she can price her products more affordably than corporate stores in the industry, and she can implement her ideal of customer service and community involvement.

“The goal is to open up every day and be here for the customers,” Starr said. “That’s the most important thing.”

'Girls Gone Wild' Founder Joe Francis Indicted Over Millions Of Dollars In Gambling Debt

Joe Francis


"Girls Gone Wild" founder Joe Francis is in hot water again, but this time it's not for exploiting underage women or even tax evasion. According to the Associated Press, a Las Vegas grand jury indicted the king of naked spring-breakers on gambling debt charges.

Francis allegedly owes millions--$2.5 million, to be exact--to Vegas's swanky Wynn Casino, as the AP reports:

Francis is accused of signing gambling markers, essentially IOUs, at the Wynn Las Vegas casino in February 2007 without being able to repay.

Francis has said he already paid the debt through prior arrangements and accused casino officials of reneging on agreed discounts.

Francis told TMZ, who obtained an exclusive copy of the indictment, that he wasn't worried:

"I'm 100% confident that I will prevail, just like I always do. Steve Wynn has enormous influence over the politicians in the Las Vegas area ... so I'm sure he's behind this."

Francis adds, "The moral of the story is don't gamble at the Wynn casinos or this could happen to you."

He could face up to four years in jail if convicted.

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Jesse James' Ex Arrested for Harassing Him

Former porn star Janine Lindemulder nabbed for 300 "harassing, abusive and bad" phone calls

Another week, and another woman in Jesse James' life is making headlines. This time, it's James' second wife, former adult film star Janine Lindemulder, who's causing all the trouble. RadarOnline.com reports that Lindemulder, 41, was arrested outside Austin on Saturday morning on charges of harassing her ex-husband. So is James' other ex, Sandra Bullock, involved? Yep, and we'll get to that.

According to E!, Lindemuler had been leaving "chronic harassing telephone calls" on James' voicemail at all hours -- 300 of them since he moved to Texas six months ago! The famous motorcycle customizer said that the calls were "so harassing, abusive and bad" that he had no choice but to alert the police. The sheriff's department had three warrants out for Lindemulder's arrest when they tracked her down.

Hmm... what could James' ex-wife be so upset about? Since the calls started when he moved to Austin, we're guessing it has everything to do with Lindemulder and James' 7-year-old daughter Sunny. In 2009, when Lindemulder was in jail for tax evasion, James and then-wife Sandra Bullock (told you she was involved!) were awarded full custody of Sunny, with Lindemulder getting only visitation rights.

Sunny's mother has never been happy with this arrangement -- so we can only imagine her reaction when her ex moved from California (where his business, West Coast Choppers, is located) to Texas, taking Sunny with him. To add insult to injury, he moved there so that his daughter could remain close to Bullock -- even though she would be much farther away from her biological mom. Lindemulder has a history of unstable behavior, and we bet this sent her over the edge.

So that's our guess -- though for all we know, Lindemulder was leaving crazy harassing messages about his haircut. What we do know is that poor Sunny is caught in the middle of squabbling adults yet again: In addition to dealing with Bullock and James's divorce, as well as preparing for brand-new stepmother Kat Von D, she now has to deal with her dad having her crazy mom arrested. So far, Bullock has been helping her beloved ex-stepdaughter deal with all the changes -- but even with Sandy's help, this is a whole lot of drama for one little girl to handle.

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Celebrations for Lisa Marie Presley and 2,000th show of ‘Phantom’

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Priscilla Presley, Frank Marino and Lisa Marie Presley at Imperial Palace on Feb. 1, 2011.

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Vince Neil, Frank Marino and Alicia Jacobs at Imperial Palace on Feb. 1, 2011.

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Holly Madison and Frank Marino at Imperial Palace on Feb. 1, 2011.

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Anthony Crivello, Kristi Holden and Andrew Ragone of Phantom -- the Las Vegas Spectacular at The Venetian on Feb. 1, 2011.

Last night was an evening of regal celebrations at The Venetian, first with The King of Rock and Roll’s daughter Lisa Marie Presley enjoying her 43rd birthday at Tao with her mother Priscilla Presley, her daughter Riley Keough and her husband guitarist Michael Lockwood.

Singer Ryan Cabrera and American Idol producer and So You Think You Can Dance judge Nigel Lythgoe were in the group of 40 for the pull-out-all-the-stops party. Nigel was a keynote speaker when Priscilla was honored as Woman of the Year at Nevada Ballet Theatre’s 27th Annual Black & White Ball on Saturday night at Aria.

Lisa had said she was staying on through mid-week before returning to her estate outside London. Tao’s chef served up a delicious dinner of signature menu items, and her family surprised her with a birthday cake. Then it was time for the platinum party people to shuttle to Drag Queen of The Strip Frank Marino’s Divas Las Vegas at Imperial Palace.

Backstage, Frank, in full regalia, posed with Priscilla and Lisa Marie; Motley Crue singer Vince Neil and KSNV entertainer reporter Alicia Bridges; and a bespectacled Holly Madison from Peepshow at Planet Hollywood, watching yet another show (she recently attended Donny and Marie Osmond’s show at the Flamingo) before flying out this morning to Mexico to join her All Time Low rocker boyfriend Jack Barakat.

They get two days of sunshine at the Mexican Riviera resort, where she shot her 2011 calendar, before attending Super Bowl XLV parties in Dallas. Holly jets back here in time for her Sunday pre- and post-game parties, including the Second Annual Holly Bowl, at Tao’s sister club Lavo at the Palazzo.

Amid the Presley party parade, Phantom -- the Las Vegas Spectacular celebrated its 2,000th performance, as we reported yesterday. Cast members Anthony Crivello (The Phantom), Kristi Holden (Christine Daae) and Andrew Ragone (Raoul) posed with the anniversary cake for contributing photographer Erik Kabik, and we’ll post a gallery later today if our photo uploader is up and running again.

Phantom’s principals hosted a special luncheon at Aquaknox at The Venetian last Friday to mark the milestone performance.

Best wishes and congratulations to all the celebrating celebrities!

Robin Leach has been a journalist for more than 50 years and has spent the past decade giving readers the inside scoop on Las Vegas, the world’s premier platinum playground.

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SDG Solo Show in Las Vegas this FRIDAY + Shows in Chicago/Detroit

FEBRUARY 4, 2011 - LAS VEGAS, NV

STEVE DIET GOEDDE SOLO SHOW - DREAM MENAGERIE

Sin City Gallery @ the Arts Factory
107 E. Charleston Ave - Suite 100
Las Vegas, NV 89104

More info at www.sincitygallery.com <http://www.sincitygallery.com>

Steve Diet Goedde will be present for the opening reception.

Also, a Q&A session will be held at the gallery the following day at
noon.

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FEBRUARY 11-19, 2011 - DETROIT, MI

12th ANNUAL DIRTY SHOW

Bert's Warehouse Theater in Eastern Market
2739 Russell St.
Detroit, MI 48207


Steve Diet Goedde will be showing limited work but will NOT be in
attendance.

More info at www.dirtyshow.org <http://www.dirtyshow.org>

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FEB 19, 2011 - CHICAGO, IL

LOVE & OTHER VIOLATIONS

An Exhibition of Works Celebrating Love, Lust, and Obsession

Gustav Klimt, Egon Schiele, Peter Behrens, Ernst Wahliss, Gail
Potocki
, Dave McKean, and Steve Diet Goedde

For the second exhibition in the Century Guild gallery in Chicago,
we are presenting rare erotic works on paper by Gustav Klimt and Egon
Schiele
, pinnacles of Art Nouveau by Peter Behrens and Ernst Wahliss,
decadent posters from the 1880s through the 1920s (on everything from
fashion to S&M literature), and contemporary works by Symbolist painter
Gail Potocki, Expressionist Dave McKean, and fetish photography icon
Steve Diet Goedde.

Steve Diet Goedde will be in attendance for the opening night reception.
This is a semi-private event. More information can be found at the
Century Guild Kickstarter Page
<http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/337503446/klimt-schiele-art-book-lo\
ve-and-other-violations-1?ref=search
> .


Bringing sexy back at DiPiazza’s — with bingo!

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Justine Goldsmith | Daily 49er

A burlesque dancer performs Tuesday night at DiPiazza’s.

DiPiazza's was alive and fully-exposed Tuesday evening as burlesque dancers shed their clothing during six intense rounds of Burlesque Bingo, marking the third week of their new Tuesday night tradition.

"I'm going to bring a girl out here, she's going to take her clothes off and you're going to win prizes," Audrey Deluxe announced.

Creator and host for the evening, Deluxe, had nothing but positive things to say about Burlesque Bingo, which is taking local areas by storm and making a name all on its own.

What began in bars like Johnny Depp's Viper Room on Sunset Boulevard soon expanded to places like the Congo Room before making its way to Long Beach.

With an eager and overly-satisfied crowd of nearly 50 players, Burlesque Bingo will now act as Tuesday night's entertainment at DiPiazza's, and is expected to draw in a lot of attention. The buzz has grown so much that over the past year, the organization worked to pitch the idea to several television networks as an idea for a new series expected sometime in the near future.

Deluxe created Burlesque Bingo as a means of shedding new light to the world of burlesque, while allowing those who don't know much about it a chance to come and join the fun.

"I wanted to present burlesque in a new way and bridge the gap from burlesque into mainstream," she said. "Mainly, I want it to be entertaining and fun for the audience."

Players pay $10 each to play six rounds of bingo, winning prizes in-between. Deluxe, who dresses just as risqué as her female counterparts and is as hysterical, acts as the host calling the numbers aloud to the audience. As the numbers are pulled, the dancer for that specific round then entertains the audience, removing her scantily clad ensemble, dropping each article of clothing upon a large numerical chart resting below her feet. The dancer ensues, knocking the crowd off their feet with one sexualized move after another, until someone from the crowd receives a "Bingo!" The winner then comes up and takes home a random prize; from tickets to a fine dinning cuisine, to hysterical ball-busters like Lunchables and gag gifts. The game continues, and new dancer takes the stage until six rounds of bingo have been completed.

"The game is something that the audience can be apart of," Deluxe said, ending the evening on a lively note. "I never want it to be serious. It should always be a fun environment for everyone."

Burlesque bingo will be held every Tuesday night at DiPiazza's at 9:30 p.m. on a first come, first served basis. DiPiazza's is located at 3800 E. Pacific Coast Hwy.